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The insanely famous Law of Attraction states that “You attract what you are!” let us dive in deep to know more!

Basically, the thoughts, ideas, and habits you send out into the Universe attract people and things who resonate with the same.

So, you come across colleagues, friends, acquaintances, and partners who think and behave similarly. 

In short, the people around you are a true reflection of who you are.

So, if there are so many people around you whom you do not like that much but somehow cross your path quite often, then know that subconsciously you are attracting them in your life. That, too, by being yourself!


Once you realize this biggest truth, you will never complain about the people in your life.

Rather, you will try to change your mindset, behavior, and thoughts. It is by changing yourself that you can attract the right kind of people in your life.

But why does this even happen? What’s this sorcery? Is this magic or a miracle?

Let me explain to you the Whys and Hows behind this biggest principle of life!

Law of Attraction- The Hidden Potential Most of Us are Unaware of!

LOA, or the Law of Attraction, is an immensely powerful tool that can help you create the life you want.

From Buddha, Einstein, and Abraham Lincoln to Mahatma Gandhi and contemporary writers like Wayne Dyer and Esther, everyone has been vocal about LOA.

In fact, there are many thought leaders across the globe who have firm faith in the power of optimism. The insanely popular book “ The Secret” by Rhonda Byrne leverages none other than quantum physics to support the theory that “you attract what you are.”

Let me further break it down into simpler language.

This law uses vibration and energy to bring you what you crave the most. For instance, when you stay positive and love yourself so much, you send a high frequency into the Universe.

This frequency further exudes positivity. Now people with an optimistic mindset will get attracted to you.

They will feel at home with you because of your confidence and the glitter in your eyes. 

On the other hand, if you always feel insecure, jealous, or angry, you are emitting negative vibrations into the Universe. People with negative mindsets and anxiety will get attracted to you. 

So, I feel that your thoughts are just a form of energy. It works on the principle of “Like attracts like.”

If you are feeling depressed or low, you will attract negative events and experiences in your life. However, if you are high on dopamine and are feeling genuinely happy from within, good things will keep happening to you. 

If you have a perpetual fear deep down in your heart and you keep imagining those fake scenarios, then it is highly likely that this mishap will happen to you one day or the other.

On the other hand, if you are confident of achieving certain feats in life, then you will surely accomplish that, too, without much struggle.

How Can You Attract Good Things, Experiences, and People in Life?

Now that you know the herculean power of the Law of Attraction, you must be wondering how to unleash this power and use it to attract the life of your dreams!

Worry no more, as your girl is a staunch believer in LOA.

I have been practicing LOA for over a decade now. I stumbled upon Rhonda Byrne’s “The Secret” back in school.

Undoubtedly, it was a life-changing experience for me. I have transformed my life by consciously practicing the Law of Attraction.

Today, I will help you unlock this latent power within you by sharing some actionable tips and hacks here.

Wait no more and scroll down to get access to the meaty details!

1. Express gratitude quite often.


Yes, this is the biggest and easiest hack you can leverage to attract good fortune.

All you need to do is to be grateful enough for the life you have.

You can experience abundance and good things only when you genuinely feel grateful. 

So, what you can do is, write down 10 things that you are grateful for every day. You can even maintain a gratitude journal for this.

You should be grateful for the smallest thing you have in your life. The smallest ever reason that puts a smile on your face is what you should be thankful for!

Be thankful for the beautiful moments you enjoy with your family and friends.

You will be astonished at how lucky you truly are!

Talking about being lucky, are you aware of the lucky girl syndrome? If not, you need this info in your life!

Anyhow, practicing gratitude should be an integral part of your life. The more grateful you are, the better things you are going to attract throughout your life!

2. Let go of the mental baggage that you have been carrying for so long!


What’s your possessiveness with those toxic and soul-sucking thoughts? Why can’t you let go of each and every memory that hurts you like hell?

If you can’t laugh again and again at the same joke, why would you keep crying over that hurtful past?

I understand your pain. I agree that it takes a lot to overcome those traumatic experiences. I can totally feel you. 

Do one thing. Go to your room. Throw yourself onto your bed. Grab your pillow hard and cry your heart out. Cry on and keep crying until your eyes feel dry. 

But once you are done, promise yourself that you will never again cry over this memory again in your entire life. 

Girl, you have lost so much. But you have the whole life in front of you. So make it better. Forget all your mental baggage and move on!

There’s no use in holding grudges. It won’t take you anywhere in life.

Forgive people so that you can move ahead in life. There’s just one life you have got. Make the most out of it, dear!

3. Practice conscious positive thinking

Say no to negativity!

You have to feed your mind and soul with positive self-talk.

Consume positive news, participate in positive conversations, indulge in spiritual activities like meditation, read good books, and watch movies that end on a positive note.
Avoid anyone who mouths only negative words. Instead of arguing with them, avoid them.

Exude positivity all around, and you will start noticing positive changes in your life.

4. improve your mental, emotional, and physical health.

Now this one is extremely important!

If your mental, physical, and emotional health are in poor condition, it is not possible to attract good things in life.


Ill health will always surround you with certain kinds of gloomy vibes. You won’t have the courage to leave bed and show up.

You will feel low all the time and won’t be able to practice gratitude as well.

So, improving your emotional, mental, and physical health is important first.

With time, you will come out of that dull and dreary phase. And then attracting good people and things will gradually become easier for you.

Actionable Tips and Hacks to Attract the Life of Your Dreams!

1. Keep repeating relevant affirmations. 

Prepare a list of affirmations and keep them handy. Repeat them multiple times throughout the day. You can get creative and decorate the walls of your room with affirmation posters. Or, you can use them as wallpaper on your phone.

The idea is to feed these affirmations into your subconscious mind. You can recite positive affirmations for letting go and attracting abundance in life.

2. Meditate and stay calm.


Practice meditation to cut yourself out from all the distractions of the world.

Meditation heals you from within, makes you calm, and helps you focus better. Also, it keeps your thoughts under control. You don’t panic easily. 

You can also listen to calming music and affirmations online. Even creating art is a type of meditation, if you don’t already know. (And here are some drawing ideas for adults you can quickly check out!)

3. Don’t forget to breathe.

Deep breaths work like magic.

Practice breathing techniques, like pranayama, to keep yourself calm.

Once you ace these breathing techniques, you will feel a certain kind of peace and bliss within. 

4. Offer lending hands to strangers.


I am sure you will help your loved ones. But have you ever helped a stranger?

Let’s do one thing! 

Start helping a stranger every week. Initially, you may feel hesitant. But their smile and gratitude will melt your heart for sure.

The happiness that you experience after helping a complete stranger is something next level.

And guess what! Karma keeps making a note of whatever you do. So, if you are helping strangers, you will be rewarded for the same too.

5. Say “Thank you” more often.

Uttering these words meaningfully can legit transform your life. Feel them as you say these powerful words while manifesting.


Be thankful from the bottom of your heart. No matter how small the favor is, thank the person wholeheartedly.

Be it your mommy bringing you food, your driver dropping you to work, or your colleague handing you a file, say “Thank You” with a smile.

And most importantly, thank God every time something good happens to you. Always thank the universe every time your manifestation comes alive.

And also, before hitting the bed and after waking up, utter a few words of gratitude and remember God as it is because of him that you have this beautiful life. 

6. Know that kindness is cool.


One thing I can swear by is that God loves kind people. So, be kind to everyone out there. From stray animals to people around, shower them with your kindness whenever possible. Remember, karma is watching you!

7. Have a progressive mindset.


Progressive people always do better than others. Be open to all possibilities and opportunities.

Never look down upon anyone or anything. Avoid those who get judgemental easily. Stay away from narrow-minded people at all costs.

Now that you know about LOA, how it works, and how you can create a better life by applying this law, you will be in a much better position to understand this saying. 

See, basically, throughout your life, you will keep attracting people who have traits, habits, and preferences similar to you.

They are nothing but the reflection of your attributes. When you observe them closely, what you witness is something that you have been holding onto within yourself for so long. 

Now you can learn some of the biggest lessons of your life through the people you attract.

For instance, if you find yourself amidst negative people all the time, then you need to understand that this pessimism is hidden somewhere inside you. So you can try and bring some positive changes within yourself.

Final thoughts on You Attract What You Are

The law of Attraction is a power that is hidden inside every individual out there. It is inside there you as well. 

And if you, my dear, want to live the life of your dreams and surround yourself with people you can call your tribe, leverage this magical power. 

Use the tips and hacks I have shared here, and you will surely witness phenomenal changes in your life. 

And don’t forget to share your experiences in the comment section. I am all ears, darling!

Hoping to hear from you soon!

See ya’!

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